August, 2009


22
Aug 09

Sit Back And Wait

Just let others do what they’re going to do.  Your best strategy is to go for the old “give them enough rope and see what happens”  rather than bailing them out.
Author unknown

22
Aug 09

“Epipha-me”

From my Webster’s College Dictionary, the word epiphany is defined as: Continue reading →


20
Aug 09

Perceptions

It’s not what you look at that matters, it’s what you see.
Henry David Thoreau

20
Aug 09

The Voice of the Narcissist

pumpkin patchMark and I hadn’t been dating long.  One late summer evening we were taking a walk through a nice neighborhood I had grown up in.  I was kind of hoping that I would see someone I knew so that someone I knew would see me with Mark. Continue reading →


18
Aug 09

Mom Understands

A mother understands what a child does not say.
Jewish Proverb

18
Aug 09

Safety

friendsMy son returned safely from an adventure with his father.  This morning they left to go hiking and fishing.  I hate these days.  I feel like I’m holding my breath the whole time he’s gone.  When he returns, I greet him with open arms and excitedly ask about all the fun that was had and hope for details without prying too much. Continue reading →


17
Aug 09

Suit Yourself

He who trims himself to suit everyone will soon whittle himself away.
Raymond Hull 

17
Aug 09

Sweeping the floor

sweepingI would not win any awards for my housekeeping skills.  Quite frankly, it would sadden me if I learned that awards were actually given out for such a thing.  I am not a slob, but I value hanging with my kids, reading, gardening, and fresh air over a clean floor.    I don’t think my less-than-perfect domestic skills are a character flaw. We live in our house for a few days at a stretch, and then I hit a wall and we straighten things up and “pretend that we aren’t messy,” as my daughter likes to say.  No one would eat off of our floor, but that’s why we have tables. Continue reading →


15
Aug 09

Real Freedom

There are two good things in life; freedom of thought and freedom of action.
William Somerset Maugham

15
Aug 09

Narcissism and Counseling

turbineSomewhere during the time that I left my marriage and discovered Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) I was going to a marriage counselor.  We actually went to counseling as a couple.  My ex didn’t put a lot of stock in counseling.  He’d tried during his first marriage and wasn’t impressed. Continue reading →