Comments on: It’s Just Stuff http://survivingnarcissism.com/2009/09/19/its-just-stuff/ by Jesse Blayne Tue, 07 Feb 2012 17:31:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Jesse http://survivingnarcissism.com/2009/09/19/its-just-stuff/comment-page-1/#comment-1064 Jesse Thu, 08 Jul 2010 21:41:50 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=407#comment-1064 Hi Heather, It's really nice to see you in the comments. Your comment reminded me of watching Will following behind Mark, while Mark did projects. I can vividly see Will waving madly and saying, "Daddy, will you stop working and play with me?" Hi Heather,

It’s really nice to see you in the comments.

Your comment reminded me of watching Will following behind Mark, while Mark did projects. I can vividly see Will waving madly and saying, “Daddy, will you stop working and play with me?”

]]> By: Heather http://survivingnarcissism.com/2009/09/19/its-just-stuff/comment-page-1/#comment-1059 Heather Thu, 08 Jul 2010 13:24:49 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=407#comment-1059 Wow! I have been reading through your older posts since finding this site and this one spoke to me so much. So many times I found myself saying to my N that it's just stuff, who cares if the house isn't perfect, what matters is the baby, his growth, his achievements, his happiness. Even now, when the N "visits" he tends to the yard, mows the law, trims trees. Sure the 4 year old likes to be out there, too but I wonder for how long he'll want to watch his daddy mowing when he'd really rather his daddy play baseball with him. Wow! I have been reading through your older posts since finding this site and this one spoke to me so much. So many times I found myself saying to my N that it’s just stuff, who cares if the house isn’t perfect, what matters is the baby, his growth, his achievements, his happiness. Even now, when the N “visits” he tends to the yard, mows the law, trims trees. Sure the 4 year old likes to be out there, too but I wonder for how long he’ll want to watch his daddy mowing when he’d really rather his daddy play baseball with him.

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