November, 2009


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Nov 09

When Divorcing The Narcissist Isn’t Enough

Last night Will was so stressed, I actually resorted to giving him a Pepcid.  That’s the first time he’s taken anything for an upset stomach.  His stomach had been bothering him for two days.  Coincidentally, his father had been over both those days. Continue reading →


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Nov 09

Promises

Those that are most slow in making a promise are the most faithful in the performance of it.
Jean Jacques Rousseau

28
Nov 09

Relationship 101

Speaking of good men …  there is a good man in my life.  Or at least there was.  As of the last couple days, there is some question as to whether he is still in my life.  As enlightened as I try to be, as whole as I want to be, as repaired as I pretend to be, I still don’t have a clue how to do this relationship stuff. Continue reading →


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Nov 09

A Great Marriage

A great marriage is not when the perfect couple comes together.  It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.
David Meurer

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Nov 09

Survivor Humor

I heard this the other night and I immediately asked if I could use it.  I’ve been thinking about how well it would tie into the next post I was planning to write.  Just now I realized that this is worthy of a stand-alone piece. Continue reading →


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Nov 09

Willpower

It’s not that some people have willpower and some don’t.  It’s that some people are ready to change and others are not.
                                                                        James Gordon

23
Nov 09

Leaf Therapy

yellowI ended up raking leaves today. The wind had done a good job, but there were still quite a few leaves in the back yard – probably has something to do with the fencing. Continue reading →


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Nov 09

Believe

Believe that you have it, and you have it.
                                                                    Latin Proverb

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Nov 09

Quit Wanting

What if we quit wanting?  What if we accepted what was in front us?  What if we quit wanting things to be different?  What if we set out to change what wasn’t working, and then learned to accept what is just fine? Continue reading →


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Nov 09

The Unexpected

Never lose faith.  Never lose heart.  There’s always something unexpected and terrific just around the bend.
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