Comments on: The Blogger as Narcissist http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/01/28/the-blogger-as-narcissist/ Life After a Narcissistic Relationship Fri, 30 Jul 2010 17:09:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: Sue Whitaker http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/01/28/the-blogger-as-narcissist/comment-page-1/#comment-190 Sue Whitaker Thu, 11 Feb 2010 02:30:30 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=1063#comment-190 How do you survive this.....daughter has been divorced 5 years and tonight is in mediation with her ex, narcissist. The 10 and 13 yr old children are just collateral damage....His only solution to anything is to have custody of the children...He is exactly what is listed as a Narcissist...and he had multiple affairs during their marriage and took all of the money....told her she never did anything for the children except prevent harm, he never wanted to marry her....and he's very vain....body builder.. How do you survive this…..daughter has been divorced 5 years and tonight is in mediation with her ex, narcissist. The 10 and 13 yr old children are just collateral damage….His only solution to anything is to have custody of the children…He is exactly what is listed as a Narcissist…and he had multiple affairs during their marriage and took all of the money….told her she never did anything for the children except prevent harm, he never wanted to marry her….and he’s very vain….body builder..

]]> By: Jesse http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/01/28/the-blogger-as-narcissist/comment-page-1/#comment-142 Jesse Mon, 01 Feb 2010 02:33:15 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=1063#comment-142 Phyllis, I admire your courage. Thank you for writing. I only hope that you find some comfort in knowing that we survivors know how you feel. Jesse Phyllis, I admire your courage. Thank you for writing. I only hope that you find some comfort in knowing that we survivors know how you feel.

Jesse

]]> By: phyllis http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/01/28/the-blogger-as-narcissist/comment-page-1/#comment-140 phyllis Sun, 31 Jan 2010 23:07:02 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=1063#comment-140 My husband was very verbally abusive to me. Yes he is a narcissist. I left him 10 months ago. We are getting a divorce. Your writings have helped me enormously. Thank you soooo much for doing this -- for all of us. My husband was very verbally abusive to me. Yes he is a narcissist. I left him 10 months ago. We are getting a divorce. Your writings have helped me enormously. Thank you soooo much for doing this — for all of us.

]]> By: Jesse http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/01/28/the-blogger-as-narcissist/comment-page-1/#comment-137 Jesse Sat, 30 Jan 2010 03:18:33 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=1063#comment-137 Lisa, You make a great point. It's nice to hear from you again. Jesse Lisa,

You make a great point. It’s nice to hear from you again.

Jesse

]]> By: Lisa http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/01/28/the-blogger-as-narcissist/comment-page-1/#comment-136 Lisa Sat, 30 Jan 2010 03:12:29 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=1063#comment-136 If you've ever questioned whether you are a narcissist, then you aren't. A true narcissist would never do that! Love your blog! Thank you so much for writing what so many of us have experienced and are also thinking and feeling. It's a pleasure to check in and see when you've posted something new. Take care. If you’ve ever questioned whether you are a narcissist, then you aren’t. A true narcissist would never do that!

Love your blog! Thank you so much for writing what so many of us have experienced and are also thinking and feeling. It’s a pleasure to check in and see when you’ve posted something new. Take care.

]]> By: Donna http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/01/28/the-blogger-as-narcissist/comment-page-1/#comment-134 Donna Fri, 29 Jan 2010 21:21:49 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=1063#comment-134 Thank YOU! I love reading your blog. I check it several times a week(............uh, actually every day), (..........um, actually several times a day!) and I'm always disappointed if there isn't anything new to read. As I've mentioned to you, I have a marked reluctance to put myself out there like you do. But in reading your blog, I'm realizing that I could do something like this and I am actually getting closer to making a commitment to a NAME for my blog! Truly a huge step for me. I appreciate reading about all of your healing steps, and I celebrate with you. Thank YOU!

I love reading your blog. I check it several times a week(…………uh, actually every day), (……….um, actually several times a day!) and I’m always disappointed if there isn’t anything new to read.

As I’ve mentioned to you, I have a marked reluctance to put myself out there like you do. But in reading your blog, I’m realizing that I could do something like this and I am actually getting closer to making a commitment to a NAME for my blog! Truly a huge step for me.

I appreciate reading about all of your healing steps, and I celebrate with you.

]]> By: Susan http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/01/28/the-blogger-as-narcissist/comment-page-1/#comment-133 Susan Fri, 29 Jan 2010 20:14:09 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=1063#comment-133 Blogging reminds me of attending a professional conference. It's always refreshing for one reason or another. 1) You hear about things you are doing already and you feel validated - you feel like you really might be doing a good job! or 2) You hear people (other people at the conference or actually speakers) admire the problem and you feel like you aren't alone - you know those are problems you haven't been able to work through in your own setting, but for some reason it feels good to hear that others haven't solved those problems either. Blogging reminds me of attending a professional conference. It’s always refreshing for one reason or another. 1) You hear about things you are doing already and you feel validated - you feel like you really might be doing a good job! or 2) You hear people (other people at the conference or actually speakers) admire the problem and you feel like you aren’t alone - you know those are problems you haven’t been able to work through in your own setting, but for some reason it feels good to hear that others haven’t solved those problems either.

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