Comments on: Do It http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/05/03/do-it/ by Jesse Blayne Sat, 04 Feb 2012 04:02:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Jesse http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/05/03/do-it/comment-page-1/#comment-2039 Jesse Fri, 14 Jan 2011 23:23:15 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=2093#comment-2039 Peggie, Your man is a lucky guy! Peggie,

Your man is a lucky guy!

]]> By: Peggie http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/05/03/do-it/comment-page-1/#comment-2037 Peggie Fri, 14 Jan 2011 17:48:10 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=2093#comment-2037 I can't imagine this being a 'hot water' post. It's beautiful and honest and visual. I dig it. And after two un-marriages I so relate to the things you say (although not with the kids because there are none for me) and I still think my man, my love of my life is the hottest thing in jeans (or out). Great reminder! I can’t imagine this being a ‘hot water’ post. It’s beautiful and honest and visual. I dig it.

And after two un-marriages I so relate to the things you say (although not with the kids because there are none for me) and I still think my man, my love of my life is the hottest thing in jeans (or out).

Great reminder!

]]> By: Lucy http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/05/03/do-it/comment-page-1/#comment-810 Lucy Tue, 04 May 2010 19:40:02 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=2093#comment-810 My comment is: Great Advice!!! I was single for a very long time and I observed how married couples sometimes, often times, treated each other. I would think if I were married I would cherish him as I want him to cherish me! That is where it begins cherish...and you may very well be cherished. If it is lost it must be found again! Unless he/she becomes unfaithful or abusive. Drifting away may happen but that can be fixed and something even better may be the result. Yes, the body isn't the same-a bit worn even...but the mind has blossomed and there is so much to share!!! There has to be conversation with courtesy. Treat the spouse like a stranger...that might start the kindness instead of the tolerance... You gave excellent advice Jesse. Words of truth are like medicines...not good tasting but, if taken, they will heal. My comment is: Great Advice!!!

I was single for a very long time and I observed how married couples sometimes, often times, treated each other. I would think if I were married I would cherish him as I want him to cherish me! That is where it begins cherish…and you may very well be cherished.

If it is lost it must be found again! Unless he/she becomes unfaithful or abusive. Drifting away may happen but that can be fixed and something even better may be the result. Yes, the body isn’t the same-a bit worn even…but the mind has blossomed and there is so much to share!!! There has to be conversation with courtesy. Treat the spouse like a stranger…that might start the kindness instead of the tolerance…

You gave excellent advice Jesse. Words of truth are like medicines…not good tasting but, if taken, they will heal.

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