August, 2010


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Aug 10

Apron Strings and Mixed Messages

forest floorJust received an email from a dear friend.   Her youngest has gone off to college.  She lives on the other side of the country, and yet I can feel how her life has shifted in a plate tectonics sort of way.   I’d like to be camped at her house with cocktails, dinners, movies and whatever her favorite distractions may be.  I know that the gesture would be appreciated, but that’s the last thing she would want right now. Continue reading →


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Aug 10

Lawyers, Attorneys and Bears – Oh My!

Mark is contesting the parenting schedule – the schedule that he authored.  At the time of our divorce. he penned a parenting schedule with all kinds of flexibility to accommodate his work and play schedules.  I was quick to accept because I knew he wouldn’t demand to see them much. Continue reading →


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Aug 10

The Gravel Road

Even with my untrained eye, I could see the treads were worn on my tires.  I was looking at taking a couple long road trips, and with my precious cargo, I figured it’d be prudent to buy new tires.  The tire guy explained that my old set of tires was designed for driving on gravel roads.  Then I remembered that Mark had purchased those tires because not only is his house set in on a gravel road, but he was planning to use my car for our family fishing/skiing/hiking trips. Continue reading →


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Aug 10

Surviving Nicely

A year from now you may wish you had started today.
Karen Lamb

Today is the first birthday of this blog.  I prefer to think of it as a birthday, rather than an anniversary, since this blog has been so much like another child for me. Continue reading →


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Aug 10

For Our Daughters

I remember the first time she was placed in my arms. Even though I was weakened and exhausted from the process, I remember thinking that I’d never felt stronger.  I felt empowered to completely love and protect her with everything I had.  Nothing could stop me from creating the best possible environment so that she’d have the healthiest life. Continue reading →


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Aug 10

Really?

What if “the hokey pokey” is REALLY what it’s all about?
Curtis Spencer

3
Aug 10

What Is The Point?

the-pointWhat are we doing here? Continue reading →