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	<title>Comments on: If Only&#8230;</title>
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	<description>Narcissism, parenting, random thoughts and occasional rants from the front lines. . . . . .  by Jesse Blayne</description>
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		<title>By: Jesse</title>
		<link>http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/09/22/if-only/#comment-4950</link>
		<dc:creator>Jesse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2012 04:16:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robin,

Thank you for sharing here.

I sincerely hope you have someone close to talk to.

Be well.

Jesse</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robin,</p>
<p>Thank you for sharing here.</p>
<p>I sincerely hope you have someone close to talk to.</p>
<p>Be well.</p>
<p>Jesse</p>
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		<title>By: Robin</title>
		<link>http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/09/22/if-only/#comment-4949</link>
		<dc:creator>Robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2012 03:49:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If only...
- they wouldn&#039;t demand I change while they do nothing
- they didn&#039;t get angry when i cried
- they had friends
- they had hobbies
- they had more than me
- they didn&#039;t resent me constantly
- they didn&#039;t hate each other
- they would just forget I exist
- they had taught me how to love

Thank you for not closing comments on this post. You&#039;re a very brave soul.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If only&#8230;<br />
- they wouldn&#8217;t demand I change while they do nothing<br />
- they didn&#8217;t get angry when i cried<br />
- they had friends<br />
- they had hobbies<br />
- they had more than me<br />
- they didn&#8217;t resent me constantly<br />
- they didn&#8217;t hate each other<br />
- they would just forget I exist<br />
- they had taught me how to love</p>
<p>Thank you for not closing comments on this post. You&#8217;re a very brave soul.</p>
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		<title>By: Jesse</title>
		<link>http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/09/22/if-only/#comment-1535</link>
		<dc:creator>Jesse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Sep 2010 16:37:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sarah,

What a kind offer.

Thank you so much.  ;)

My blog writing has been very therapeutic for me.  I can only imagine what the book would do.

Jesse</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarah,</p>
<p>What a kind offer.</p>
<p>Thank you so much.  ;)</p>
<p>My blog writing has been very therapeutic for me.  I can only imagine what the book would do.</p>
<p>Jesse</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah Tate</title>
		<link>http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/09/22/if-only/#comment-1534</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah Tate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Sep 2010 09:35:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you need any help/encouragement with your writing, let me know.

It&#039;s hard to write it down, but hugely therapeutic.  Once you get past the first few chapters, it spills out. That was my experience anyway.

S
x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you need any help/encouragement with your writing, let me know.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s hard to write it down, but hugely therapeutic.  Once you get past the first few chapters, it spills out. That was my experience anyway.</p>
<p>S<br />
x</p>
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		<title>By: Jesse</title>
		<link>http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/09/22/if-only/#comment-1524</link>
		<dc:creator>Jesse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2010 18:10:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sarah,

I&#039;m anticipating a spike in my blood pressure while reading, but still...

There&#039;s nothing quite like the commiserating with, or reading about, another survivor.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarah,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m anticipating a spike in my blood pressure while reading, but still&#8230;</p>
<p>There&#8217;s nothing quite like the commiserating with, or reading about, another survivor.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah Tate</title>
		<link>http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/09/22/if-only/#comment-1523</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah Tate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2010 17:57:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aww, thank you Jesse!

I hope you &#039;enjoy&#039; it.  I&#039;m sure you&#039;ll be able to relate.

S x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aww, thank you Jesse!</p>
<p>I hope you &#8216;enjoy&#8217; it.  I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ll be able to relate.</p>
<p>S x</p>
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		<title>By: Jesse</title>
		<link>http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/09/22/if-only/#comment-1522</link>
		<dc:creator>Jesse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2010 17:52:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sarah,

I just bought my copy of your book, &quot;Web of Lies:  My Life With A Narcissist&quot;.  I&#039;ve been wanting to get it.   No better time than now.

All the best...

Jesse</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarah,</p>
<p>I just bought my copy of your book, &#8220;Web of Lies:  My Life With A Narcissist&#8221;.  I&#8217;ve been wanting to get it.   No better time than now.</p>
<p>All the best&#8230;</p>
<p>Jesse</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah Tate</title>
		<link>http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/09/22/if-only/#comment-1521</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah Tate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2010 17:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>* The book would sell a kgillion copies, and I could pay off all the debt the loser left me with, and secure my kids future :-)

If only......

S x</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>* The book would sell a kgillion copies, and I could pay off all the debt the loser left me with, and secure my kids future :-)</p>
<p>If only&#8230;&#8230;</p>
<p>S x</p>
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		<title>By: Jesse</title>
		<link>http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/09/22/if-only/#comment-1520</link>
		<dc:creator>Jesse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2010 16:44:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Donna,

HellOOOO...  you have to be one of THE most enlightened people I&#039;ve ever had the pleasure to meet.

Just saying ....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Donna,</p>
<p>HellOOOO&#8230;  you have to be one of THE most enlightened people I&#8217;ve ever had the pleasure to meet.</p>
<p>Just saying &#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Donna</title>
		<link>http://survivingnarcissism.com/2010/09/22/if-only/#comment-1519</link>
		<dc:creator>Donna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2010 16:40:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If Only....

* I had a horse.
* I had my own house.
* I was enlightened.
* I was an only child.
* My eyes were 20/20+.
* I knew what the frick I was here for!
* I owned a tropical island.
* What I liked to eat was healthy.
* Etc. Etc. Etc.
* :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If Only&#8230;.</p>
<p>* I had a horse.<br />
* I had my own house.<br />
* I was enlightened.<br />
* I was an only child.<br />
* My eyes were 20/20+.<br />
* I knew what the frick I was here for!<br />
* I owned a tropical island.<br />
* What I liked to eat was healthy.<br />
* Etc. Etc. Etc.<br />
* :)</p>
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