Comments on: The Best Kind of Party http://survivingnarcissism.com/2012/06/14/the-best-kind-of-party/ Narcissism, parenting, random thoughts and occasional rants from the front lines. . . . . . by Jesse Blayne Fri, 24 May 2013 16:40:49 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.1 By: Jesse http://survivingnarcissism.com/2012/06/14/the-best-kind-of-party/#comment-5294 Jesse Sun, 17 Jun 2012 20:13:22 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=5982#comment-5294 Z, If that isn't one of the habits of highly successful people, it ought to be. I'm adopting that one. Z,

If that isn’t one of the habits of highly successful people, it ought to be.

I’m adopting that one.

]]> By: Jesse http://survivingnarcissism.com/2012/06/14/the-best-kind-of-party/#comment-5293 Jesse Sun, 17 Jun 2012 20:11:30 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=5982#comment-5293 NM, I like your attitude. I'd LOVE to come to your party. You'll be at mine, won't you? NM,

I like your attitude.

I’d LOVE to come to your party. You’ll be at mine, won’t you?

]]> By: Zaira http://survivingnarcissism.com/2012/06/14/the-best-kind-of-party/#comment-5292 Zaira Sun, 17 Jun 2012 17:23:31 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=5982#comment-5292 I have made a rule for myself. If the person asking for ____ would do the same for me without hesitation, then I do it. If not, I say no. This does not include my kids...lol! But it does allow me to give, prevents me from regretting it, and provides the balance I need. I have made a rule for myself. If the person asking for ____ would do the same for me without hesitation, then I do it. If not, I say no. This does not include my kids…lol! But it does allow me to give, prevents me from regretting it, and provides the balance I need.

]]> By: NM http://survivingnarcissism.com/2012/06/14/the-best-kind-of-party/#comment-5291 NM Sun, 17 Jun 2012 17:10:18 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=5982#comment-5291 Agreed, Zaira! Avoidance is sometimes a necessity. I like how you put that Jesse, that we "wish them well & send them on their way." some days are better than others, but I really do feel that I don't wish bad things on my N. getting to a place of acceptance of the past & feeling sad for her future. But she's still not invited to my party! But you all can come if you like:) Agreed, Zaira! Avoidance is sometimes a necessity. I like how you put that Jesse, that we “wish them well & send them on their way.” some days are better than others, but I really do feel that I don’t wish bad things on my N. getting to a place of acceptance of the past & feeling sad for her future. But she’s still not invited to my party! But you all can come if you like:)

]]> By: Jesse http://survivingnarcissism.com/2012/06/14/the-best-kind-of-party/#comment-5289 Jesse Sun, 17 Jun 2012 15:43:50 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=5982#comment-5289 Kira, I know... at what point do we embrace the idea that we are supposed to put other people and their feelings ahead of our own? Kira,

I know… at what point do we embrace the idea that we are supposed to put other people and their feelings ahead of our own?

]]> By: Kira http://survivingnarcissism.com/2012/06/14/the-best-kind-of-party/#comment-5286 Kira Sun, 17 Jun 2012 04:16:44 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=5982#comment-5286 Likewise Jesse!! I have a way of feeling bad for people too. I am truly trying to work on this piece LOL. Likewise Jesse!! I have a way of feeling bad for people too. I am truly trying to work on this piece LOL.

]]> By: Teresa Deak http://survivingnarcissism.com/2012/06/14/the-best-kind-of-party/#comment-5280 Teresa Deak Fri, 15 Jun 2012 23:41:46 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=5982#comment-5280 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">RT @jesseblayne The Best Kind of Party http://t.co/Ouln2EGb</span></span> RT @jesseblayne The Best Kind of Party http://t.co/Ouln2EGb

]]> By: Teresa Deak http://survivingnarcissism.com/2012/06/14/the-best-kind-of-party/#comment-5281 Teresa Deak Fri, 15 Jun 2012 23:41:46 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=5982#comment-5281 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">RT @jesseblayne The Best Kind of Party http://t.co/Ouln2EGb</span></span> RT @jesseblayne The Best Kind of Party http://t.co/Ouln2EGb

]]> By: Zaira http://survivingnarcissism.com/2012/06/14/the-best-kind-of-party/#comment-5282 Zaira Fri, 15 Jun 2012 23:00:51 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=5982#comment-5282 Avoidance...is sometimes a necessity. xoxo Avoidance…is sometimes a necessity. xoxo

]]> By: Jesse http://survivingnarcissism.com/2012/06/14/the-best-kind-of-party/#comment-5279 Jesse Fri, 15 Jun 2012 16:28:26 +0000 http://survivingnarcissism.com/?p=5982#comment-5279 Z, Oh, how I love the way you think! That's an excellent idea! Knowing me, I'd see their faces at the door, feel sorry for them and their skewed views, cave and let them in. Then I'd have to leave my own party. Z,

Oh, how I love the way you think! That’s an excellent idea!

Knowing me, I’d see their faces at the door, feel sorry for them and their skewed views, cave and let them in. Then I’d have to leave my own party.

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