than trying to explain them to an inquisitive child. – Frank A. Clark
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On Understanding Your Beliefs
than trying to explain them to an inquisitive child. – Frank A. Clark
Surviving Narcissism Exploring life after marriage to a narcissist. Learning and thriving by sharing our story. – Jesse Blayne
than trying to explain them to an inquisitive child. – Frank A. Clark
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I kept thinking about this quote yesterday when my son and I were discussing the extracurricular activities he wants to do. His dad doesn’t understand the importance of team sports like baseball and basketball or how much Lego League will enhance the exceptional science aptitude that our son possesses. He says that they do not provide real life skills. “Swimming may save your life, MMA may help you defend yourself.” The N is mainly concerned about it being inconvenient for him and the first question asked about the extracurricular is when are the meetings. The next statement is how it interferes with their time together.
(Uh, being a part of a child’s life IS participating in those activities that the CHILD is interested in.)
My son talked about the importance of trying new things, running, and building muscles. I pointed out the importance of team work in the workplace and that what is important to one person may not be to another.
As we crossed the state line and approached home, my son waved goodbye to the state he now associates with oppression and cheered with exuberance in anticipation of Lego League.
Z,
I’m happy to hear that your son is home – where he belongs.
Yay! for parents who put their own agendas aside to help their kids create awesome futures.
Boo! for narcissistic parents who think their kids’ futures belong to them and not their kids.
Me too! And his genuine cheers for freedom still ring in my head…as I know the feeling well.
This is so true….