About
I am Jesse Blayne. I am a divorced woman with two fantastic kids and the world’s most patient cat. I live in the same town that I grew up in and almost all of my supportive crazy extended family still lives here. I have a bunch of wonderful friends that live in different parts of the country. I learned all about Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) six weeks after I left my husband. When I first discovered NPD, I read everything I could get my hands on. After awhile, I realized that I needed to read something that was hopeful, not depressing or deflating. I learned why my marriage was so difficult. I learned that I wasn’t a total failure. But, I was done being mad at the world, the situation, and him. There are still plenty of days when I am mad (mostly at him) but I was ready to do something productive with all this information and this energy. I knew that besides my friends and family, humor had gotten me through this craziness. I wanted to write about how bizarre NPD is. I never got tired of telling the people close to me the unbelievable, strange, ridiculous stories that happened because of narcissism. But they only wanted to hear so much. And who can blame them? This blog lets me tell all those stories without alienating my family and friends. Thank you, all of you, for putting up with me. This would not be possible without you.
