Aren’t you lucky? You have an INFJ in your life. That means that while you’ll never completely understand what makes her tick, you’ll never be bored, and you’ll always know that she highly values the relationship she has with you. Continue reading →
The narcissist held on to his money the way he held on to his image. When it came time to plan for a wedding, she new that being frugal was equally as important as his need to look good. He had made it clear that this would be a small, affordable affair. This was his second, “after all,” even though it was her first. Continue reading →
She’d filed herself down so much, she hardly recognized herself, but then not seeing herself made it easier to focus on him and his needs. Continue reading →
There are no commendations for being the fastest laundry folder or having the cleanest kitchen floor.
You’ll get the emails sent, the books formatted and the bills paid in due time.
Make eye contact with them when they ask, “What’s for lunch?” If they want you to jump off the shed roof into the leaf pile, do it. Show her how to read a pattern and then turn her loose. So what if he wants to learn every detail about waxing skis. It doesn’t hurt you to pretend to care.
Have tea with your aunt.
Go to lunch with a girlfriend.
Stay up too late watching a movie.
Eat buttery noodles in a snowdrift of Parmesan and forget about protein for a change.
Don’t worry about keeping up with everything. Not everything needs to be kept up with.
There is grace in taking it slower.
This morning I received these words from the Universe
in the form of a frazzled voice that sounded a lot like my own.
“I like it when you go outside to do your extroverting when you can see that Jen needs to introvert.” Continue reading →
Those INFJ traits make for a tenacious individual when it comes to working on relationships. She would never run out of the desire to try. She’d contort herself into whatever shape he needed in order to make this work. Continue reading →