Hola Friends,
I have not found a new zip code. I’m still here. I have been putting out fires, reinforcing boundaries and meeting the train head on. I was inspired by what Julie Roads had to say about dealing with things instead of running from them, or putting them off, in ‘Rapid Hearts‘.
It proves to be a test of whether I really can take charge — an exhilarating, empowering test.
The wasband has contacted a counselor and his lawyer. He wants to work on being the dad his kids need. Perhaps that is a good thing. I’m not even hoping for that anymore. I’m staying the course, raising my kids, raking the yard, walking the hill and getting excited about vacation.
And planning out my next posts.
I have lots to write.
Tags: child of narcissist, divorce, NPD, proactive, survive
